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I’ve posted before, I’m in a sexless, pretty much loveless (from my perspective) marriage, but at the moment, I have lots of things going on and don’t... Where can an unhappily married woman get sex without having an affair? I’ve posted before, I’m in a sexless, pretty much loveless (from my perspective) marriage, but at the moment, I have lots of things going on and don’t want the stress of a separation/divorce on top of it all.
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But my husband is far too lazy to ever bother with sex, whereas I am highly sexed and want it regularly. I also want to go with a woman at least once but not a threesome, Is anyone in a similar boat and can recommend a way for me to get what I want without having an affair (because I can’t be bothered with all the sneaking about), or being murdered by a stranger? if you’ve done similar, how did you do it and how did it work out for you? Certainly in a similar boat in terms of lack of sex, and the last person you'll want commenting on this is a single guy, but I'd say explore the thread regarding paying for sex. If you are highly sexed and unhappily married, can't entertain an affair with a tinder date, or other online random, then your options will be a little limited, unfortunately. Sex clubs are the only place that springs to mind, you'll have the anonymity to explore, but no affair required, also access to women/men. Good luck, no sex is truly difficult to sustain, especially when you are horny. Killing Kittens any good? Just bringing in the male perspective if that helps? I tried killing kittens but it was a little bit too throw away for me. I really enjoy getting to know someone and having that spark, which makes everything in the bedroom far more intense anyway. I just get out there and end up meeting women who are either single or wiyh someone but looking for something better sexually/enjoy some evenings out. In answer to OP I think anything will qualify as an affair if sexual, but you that doesn't mean it's needs to be with a view to leaving, especially if you just want to have some much needed attention and feel wanted. Lots of guys would love to give you that, just make sure you find ones who respect you too
When you've crossed that line it's cheating. You can dress it up however you at you like it if it makes you feel better. It's sneaking around behind your partners back. Or, you can let the thread run and the OP get some advice without judging her. Just a thought. It's her life. @GentlemanJay Maybe it is, technically. But maybe he should have thought of that before leaving me in this situation. I have tried literally everything I can think of. And we get on well enough, although it’s more as mates, I think. But we live together and work together so a separation/divorce would be a massive hassle. NDerbys32 · 02/07/2023 09:34. Or, you can let the thread run and the OP get some advice without judging her. Just a thought. It's her life. As much as I agree with you this is yet another double standard of MN If this was a guy asking the same thing they would be torn to shreds and be getting called scum of the earth. As for how to do it OP Have a look on fab I'm sure you'll find a woman to hook up with. I once had an arrangement with a married woman. Similar situation to the OP. She caught feelings though and wanted exclusivity. I was single and very much playing the field, so it had to end. Fun while it lasted though. Options seem to be: Live with current frustration End marriage Agree with husband to an open marriage Secret affair Secret FWB/flings See an escort. If you don’t want to live with current frustration, or end the marriage, or have a sustained and serious affair, that leaves agreeing to open the marriage, or secret FWB/flings, or seeing an escort. The reality is that anything other than opening the marriage would also involve a degree of ‘sneaking about’, as it would have to be kept secretive. (Not judging FWB etc, but you said you're averse to the whole sneaking around thing.) Seems to me the only options left involve talking with your husband: either to end the marriage, or open it. I can’t see any other options given the parameters you’ve set yourself.